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女子与家人争执从5楼跳下,被4楼邻居一把抓住[多图]

yst 2018-8-14 9:38:38 跳楼与家人争执跳楼被邻居救下 我要评论(0)

有时候,和家人之间发生一些矛盾,有争吵是比较常见的现象,一家人还是要和睦相处,但是遇到一些问题,观点不同,还是会有矛盾会吵架,需要更多理解和包容,而近日在贵阳市,一名年轻女子因为和家人争吵,想不开跳楼,后来被家人和楼下邻居给抓住了,才没有造成悲剧的发生。

女子与家人争执从5楼跳下,被4楼邻居一把抓住(1)

1、跳楼被邻居一把抓住

8月12日深夜,贵州省贵阳市云岩区渔安新城B13栋附近,一名年轻女子从自家5楼阳台坠下,被家人和4楼的住户牢牢抓住,并控制在了4楼的防盗窗外。

当晚11点30分左右,接到有群众跳楼的报警后,云岩公安分局巡逻(特警)大队一中队12网格民警张挺随即和同组队员快速赶到了现场。

到达事发小区后发现,女子已经从5楼自家的阳台上跳下。幸亏她的家人和楼下邻居及时出手,将她死死拉住。可女子整个人已经悬在了4楼和5楼之间的防盗窗外,女子情绪激动,不停地挣扎。拉住她的人丝毫不敢放松,现场处于僵持中。

民警张挺立即将情况上报分局,同时随行辅警拿来救援绳索,将绳索系在女子腰部和手臂等关键部位,固定在防盗窗上,防止其意外坠落。随后,民警拨打了119和120求援。随即,云岩消防大队三桥南路消防中队官兵和急救车赶到了现场。因为楼下停满了住户的车辆,无法铺设救生气垫,救援车也无法抵近。消防指挥员随即命令官兵携带破拆工具,来到4楼住户家中,从屋内实施营救。

10多分钟后,4楼住户家的阳台防盗窗被消防官兵破拆出了一个一米见方的洞。现场人员携手,将窗外的女子从洞中营救进了屋内。

后经了解,事发前,女子跟家里人起了争执,一时想不开,准备跳楼寻短见。幸亏家人发现不对劲,一把将她拉住,楼下邻居也及时出手帮忙,悲剧才没有发生。

女子与家人争执从5楼跳下,被4楼邻居一把抓住(2)

2、老年人如何与家人相处

1、子女

子女与父母关系最密切,彼此间可以较直接地指出对方的不是之处,加上所谓父子/母女没有隔夜仇,彼此间较容易原谅对方,因此通常问题不至太严重。一些老年人总是会有“我的孩子就要听我的”这种心理,其实子女虽说是父母生养的,但作为一个独立的个体,也有他们的权利。子女成年后,老年人也要给予他们一定的尊重。

2、媳妇及女婿

由于媳妇或女婿本来与长者认识不深,但在与长者的子女结婚后,却忽然间要经常与长者见面,甚至一同居住,因此较易产生相处的问题。生活中出现一些矛盾的时候,老年人要学会说出来,而不是闷在心里,或者背后告状,这种行为长此以往不利于老年人和媳妇及女婿的关系。

3、孙辈

长者往往对孙儿特别痛爱,有些长者甚至会尝试学习新事物,以增加彼此问题话题,例如学习上网收发电子邮件,与居于外地的孙儿沟通,不过,有时过于慈爱及迁就,往往令孙子骄惯,不懂得尊敬祖父母。要知道溺爱是要不得的,溺爱孙辈不仅对孙辈没有好处,有时甚至会引起子女们的埋怨。老年人对待孙辈的态度应该是疼爱而非溺爱。

女子与家人争执从5楼跳下,被4楼邻居一把抓住(3)

3、如何远离争吵

1、自己先冷静下来

当你的内心非常生气,怒火不断积压不断燃烧的时候,这个时候一定要控制好发火的力度,在这种情况下,如果你一股脑的把火都发出来的话,那你一定会做出伤害对方的举动或是言语,发火之前,请先做几次深呼吸,告诉自己不要冲动,要冷静,理性的对待问题,吵架是吵不出结果的,要学会平息内心的怒火,比如出去走走,听听音乐,让自己冷静下来,然后再去回应爱人的问题,让自己保持清醒,这们事情的条理才能更清楚,才能更好的解决问题。

2、不要大声反驳

不管是谈恋爱还是小两口过日子,都是因为了解对方,都清楚自己的爱人是什么样的脾气,会因为什么话而发火,千万不要去说这些让对方发火的话,过激的言辞会给对方造成伤害,不管他说了什么,做了什么,你都保持住你的冷静和清醒,然后等对方冷静下来之后再处理问题。

3、学会听对方说什么并且有所回应

不管是因为什么吵架,如果一方保持冷静的话,这个架不会吵的太久,单方面的愤怒都不会维护太久,当他安静下来,你尝试着去听对方为什么会这样,原因有哪里,用一些温情和表示理解的话语去跟对方谈话,没必要去纠结谁对谁错,两个人开心最重要。

交谈的时候最好是看着对方说,显得更真诚,说一些平时没有表达过的话,握着他的手,让他感受你的爱,这样对方也会跟着一起回忆,怒火自然就消了。

4、学会换位思考

当两个人为一件事情争论不休的时候,冷静下来,试着站在他的角度思考一下问题,感受一下他当时的感受,多多跟对方沟通,告诉他你的想法,试着尊重对方,然后一起说说存在的一些问题,来增加彼此的信任,过去的事情就不要再提了,以免争吵又开始继续。

女子与家人争执从5楼跳下,被4楼邻居一把抓住(4)

家人之间相处需要多理解,多包容,能够换位思考,虽然有时候长辈和晚辈有一些代沟,看待问题有很大的不同,偶尔会产生一些矛盾,需要正确的处理,尽量不要吵架,要争吵之前,让自己冷静下来,不要产生激烈的碰撞,尽量避免争吵。

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