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老人因儿子拒不还钱,持刀到学校将孙子刺伤报复[多图]

欠债不还,有时候确实让人很恼火,特别是亲朋好友之间,要钱也有些不好意思,但是有时候也会因为欠钱闹出一些矛盾,近日,湖南的一老人,因为儿子拿了自己的钱不还,一气之下就找到孙子,将怒火转移到孩子身上,刺伤了自己的孙子,令人咋舌。

老人因儿子拒不还钱,持刀到学校将孙子刺伤报复(1)

1、儿子不还钱刺伤孙子

3月29日下午从湖南娄底新化县多个官方渠道证实,一名老汉29日中午持刀闯入新化上梅镇一所小学,将课间休息的一名男生刺伤。被刺男生系行凶老人孙子,目前该老人已被警方控制。

多名新化县官方人士介绍说,29日11时许,新化县炉观镇一居民刘某某(男,1957年出生)携带一把水果刀来到新化县上梅镇一所小学一间教室,趁下课间隙,将其孙子(11岁,该校学生)刘某刺伤,原因是其子刘某富(学生父亲)拿了其六万元钱。刘某某向刘某富要钱遭拒,就将火发到孙子刘某身上实施报复。

新化县官方人士介绍,目前刘某某已被公安机关控制。案情发生后,学校医务室以最快的速度为受伤的孩子包扎伤口,现在新化县中医院手术治疗,无生命危险。目前新化教育局已紧急动员,积极准备为孩子们进行心理疏导。

老人因儿子拒不还钱,持刀到学校将孙子刺伤报复(2)

2、如何平复自己的情绪

1、情绪是能量的提示,只有静心细致的体会自己的情绪,才能明白自己真正的期待。要平复自己的情绪,首先要收回自己对别人的期待,真实的面对自己的期待,事件的发生都是有意义的,不以你个人的期待为转移,某种程度上一切都是上帝这排好的,你身在这个宏大而微细的舞台剧中,既是导演也是演员,而剧本早以写好,你只需放轻松,坐回你的位置,享受这个过程,收回期待是缓解自己情绪的第一步。

2、真正的认可自己,放松对自己的期待,宽容自己,接纳与喜欢自己,相信自己的生命之花会绽放如初,一切美好都会因你而来,你即是缘也是果,这是一个人究其一生的追求生命存在的真正意义,是缓解情绪的根本。

3、批判与评价别人,实际上是批判自己,与自己过不去,当自己能够让自己过去,不再攻击自己时,才会真正的把自己当成一个人,你才可能把别人当成一个人,这样相处才会有界限,才能把自己当自己,把别人当别人,这是缓解因自我攻击与攻击别人所带来不适的感受的基本做法。

4、只有把自己当别人时,不看表面的行为,才会真正的好奇对方的渴望时,深深理解对方不得以而为的动机时与别人融与一体而不是用道理来评判之时,才是真正有价值感的共情与承载。才是真正有生命力表现,因为真正的生命力是会浇灌与滋养其它的生命力,使之发芽,蓬勃,绽放。

5、把别人当自己,当明白别人的特性与自己不同,把别人真正当做一个虽然我不能理解,我不能接纳,但是对方仍然是一个有价值的独一无二的生命体,必然有着它的存在价值与意义,才能真正的把自己视为一个独一无二的生命体,是上帝最与众不同的作品,你才真正不依赖别人的认可才能存活,也不需要通过证明自己或者说一定要证明自己是对的才是有价值的,只有这样才能真正回归到自我的价值感认同,才是真正的爱自己。真正远离烦恼与愤怒的根本。

老人因儿子拒不还钱,持刀到学校将孙子刺伤报复(3)

3、动脉被刺伤怎么办

动脉从心室出发,负责把血液运送到全身器官。

大部分动脉都在人体比较深的地方,不太容易受伤。但也有一部分动脉大家都能摸到,比如手臂上的桡动脉、肱动脉,大腿上的股动脉,还有颈动脉、足背动脉等。中医号脉搭的就是桡动脉,能感觉到它在手腕处的搏动。

一旦发生意外,些位置较浅的动脉很容易破裂,尤其是桡动脉、肱动脉,股动脉等比较大的动脉。

一人的血量大约占体重的8%。比如一个60公斤重的人,血量大概为4800毫升。当他失血量达到总血量的20%时,就会休克;如果超过20%,达到800-1000毫升时,手脚开始发冷;如果一次失血超过总血量的30%,就会有生命危险。

这里还要考虑一个时间问题。

比如失血1000毫升是发生在数小时或十几小时内,不一定会危及生命;但如果是在几分钟内,就可导致死亡。

动脉血由心脏挤压出来,压力很高,动脉一破,血就像泉水一样往外涌。如果是大动脉出血,血液甚至还会喷出来,颜色鲜红。如果不处理,不到5分钟人就会休克。

遇到动脉出血,止血的办法是先指压止血--手指用力按住出血动脉靠近心脏的一端,尽量往深处的骨头上压,然后找止血带(或是干净的手帕等)包扎起来。比如股动脉破裂(如大腿被利器刺伤),可以先把膝盖弯曲,让肌肉放松,然后用大拇指按住大腿根部腹股沟中间点(即股动脉的止血点。用手指触摸可感觉到微微隆起和轻轻的搏动)。同时联系120尽快把伤者送医院。

老人因儿子拒不还钱,持刀到学校将孙子刺伤报复(4)

有时候遇到一些事情,情绪可能不是很稳定,在生气的情况下,可能做出一些让人后悔的事情,而事后后悔就来不及了,平时遇到事情要冷静,不要偏激,新闻中的老人的举动有些令人费解,一时冲动做出糊涂事,要学会平复自己的情绪。

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